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90 days that changed my life

I have discovered that support from a mentor can be so powerful, life-changing even. That’s why I’m proud to be leading the Institute of Fundraising London’s Mentoring Programme. Also that’s why I’m writing this blog, because I want to shout about this brilliant mentoring programme. If you’re interested in getting involved, because you want a mentor or you want to be a mentor, then I will tell you how at the end of this blog.

9.30am, Friday 8th January 2016 – Skype call with Alan Clayton.

I asked Alan a simple question: “Will you be my mentor?” I didn’t realise this question would change my life.In my mind I wanted light and gentle mentoring. I was envisaging a phone call once a fortnight and a bit of friendly advice. I think Alan had something else in mind. He saw the significance of my request. He was thinking life-changing mentoring.So we arranged a date to meet and two weeks later I went to spend a weekend at Alan’s hotel overlooking Loch Ness. He asked me what my goals were. I said I wanted to grow my business and I also wanted to lose weight. So on the first day I defined my five-year goals and I really explored why I want to create them. Alan kept pushing me for bigger more powerful reasons why I wanted to make these changes, so I was totally fired up to make it happen.On the second day we created a plan to achieve my goals. We broke them down into one year and 90 day goals and identified simple things I could do each day.

Incredible results

Today is day 90 and I have to tell you that so much has changed in my life. I’ve lost 2 stone in weight and four inches off my waist. I’ve been to the gym 59 times in those 90 days. I’ve also walked or cycled for 74 hours. I’ve even started eating mushrooms!Also my business has changed. I have a much clearer and more powerful way of describing my business. I’m enjoying working with my clients because I’m bringing so much energy, focus and creativity and I’m delivering brilliant results. I’ve also got greater work-life balance.I’m proud of the changes I’ve made. So how did I do it? What are the fundamental elements?

Why?

It started with why. Why do I want to be fitter and healthier? Why do I want to grow my business? Alan helped me go deeper and deeper until I found reasons why that inspired me so much they filled me with excitement and motivation. I discovered reasons that I didn’t know were inside me, such as, “I want to have the energy to fulfil my dreams.” Now my reasons are saved on my desktop, so I can look at them whenever I’m feeling flat and struggling to stay on track.

Routine

I have radically changed my routine. For three days in a row I go to the gym, then I have a rest day. I email Alan every morning and evening to let him know how I’m doing. I don’t have take away meals anymore. I cook virtually every meal I eat. I don’t take taxis anymore. I walk or take public transport instead. Also I go to bed before 11 at night. Sleep is crucial. The more I do these things they become my habit. I no longer have a debate with myself about whether I’m going to the gym. I just put on my gym gear and go and I feel happier after I’ve done it.

Measuring results

I have a fitness and weight loss chart that I fill in every day. I write down how many minutes I spent at the gym, how long I walked for and I update my weight. All those figures create a brilliant graph showing my progress against my target. It’s hugely motivating to see the progress I’m making.

Support

I have a fabulous support network. Alan and my wife Araxie have been amazing. If I’m struggling I know I can ask for their support and they remind me how well I’m doing. But also I’ve received encouragement from friends, family and clients. I’ve told quite a lot of people about my goals and I find they are very encouraging and supportive.

Acknowledging myself

I’m also acknowledging myself a lot more. When I was working with Alan I said, “Whatever I do it’s never enough.” It brought tears to my eyes, because I realised how harsh it was and also that I told myself that a lot. Also I realised it was completely untrue. So Alan suggested I replace it with a different phrase. Now I tell myself, “I’m proud of me”. So when I go to the gym, “I’m proud of me”. When I do a great piece of work for a client, “I’m proud of me”. It’s having a very powerful effect because it’s really building my confidence.

You can do this too

If you’re feeling inspired by my story perhaps you want to find a mentor. Who do you respect and admire? Will you contact them and ask if they will mentor you? They might ask for you to pay a monthly fee, but what could be more important than changing your life?I believe that having a mentor is a very powerful experience, which is why I lead the Institute of Fundraising London Mentoring Programme. You can find out more about the programme here.If you’re a fundraiser based in London and you work for a charity with a turnover of less than £2 million then you can apply for a mentor here.Also we’re always looking out for new mentors, so if you’ve a fundraiser in London with two or more years experience you can apply to be a mentor here.If you’ve found this inspiring please send me an email at jonathan@remarkablepartnerships.com. It would be great to hear from you.

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How Healthy is Your Pipeline?

When doctors and nurses need to understand how healthy a patient is, they start by checking the vital signs: blood pressure, temperature, and heart rate. These simple checks can quickly tell them whether everything is working as it should or whether something needs attention.

So, when we meet with charities, we often want to follow a similar process with their corporate partnerships. One of the questions we always ask is: how healthy is your pipeline?

The answer is often incredibly revealing, because your pipeline isn't simply a list of companies you'd like to work with; it's one of the clearest indicators of the health and future potential of your corporate partnerships programme.

So, if you were giving your pipeline a health check today, what would you find?

The three vital signs of a healthy pipeline

We believe three key factors matter: quality, momentum, and ownership.

1. Quality: Are the right prospects in your pipeline?

A big pipeline isn't necessarily a healthy pipeline. You could have 100 companies listed, but if most have little connection to your cause, limited potential, or no realistic route to engagement, what value does that number really give you? 

A healthy pipeline includes quality prospects: companies with high-value potential that fit your organisation and its purpose, so you need to be selective.

Ask yourself: Are these genuinely the companies we should be investing our time and energy in?

Sometimes, improving the health of your pipeline isn't about adding more prospects; it's about being brave enough to remove the wrong ones.

2. Momentum: Are your prospects moving?

A healthy pipeline should never be static. Your prospects should be consistently moving through the different stages of your pipeline, from identified to engaged, nurtured and, ultimately, converted.

Of course, that doesn't mean every prospect will move at the same speed. Building high-value corporate partnerships takes time, but it should still build momentum. If a company has been sitting in the same stage for six months, ask why.

  • What's stopping it from moving forward?
  • What conversation needs to happen?
  • Who else could you involve?
  • What's the next action?
  • And if there isn't a realistic next action, should that prospect still be taking up space in your pipeline?

Successful corporate partnerships teams don't just track activity; they actively look for ways to create momentum.

3. Ownership: Who is responsible for your pipeline?

Your pipeline shouldn't live forgotten in a spreadsheet that gets opened once a month; it needs ownership.

The most successful corporate partnerships teams we’ve worked with regularly review their pipelines together, with senior management engaged in the process too.

Personally, we think 9am on a Monday is a great time to do it. Start the week by looking at where your opportunities are, what's changed, what's stuck and where the team needs support. This isn't about reporting for reporting's sake; it’s about collectively asking: What can we do this week to move things forward?

Senior management can be particularly valuable here. They may have relationships that can unlock a conversation, experience that helps overcome a challenge or influence that can bring the right people around the table. Your pipeline shouldn't belong to one person. Creating remarkable partnerships should be a team effort.

Ask better questions about your pipeline

A good pipeline meeting shouldn't simply involve reading through a list of companies and giving an update on each one. It should create action.

Instead, ask questions that challenge your thinking:

  • Which prospect is stuck, and what could we do to move them to the next stage?
  • Do we have too many prospects in our pipeline?
  • Do we have too few?
  • Are they the right prospects?
  • How could we get better and more efficient at moving companies from engaged to converted?
  • What's our communications plan for keeping prospects engaged and moving forward?

The purpose isn't simply to know what's in your pipeline; it's to make your pipeline work harder.

Pace matters too

Another characteristic we see in highly successful corporate partnerships teams is pace. Your team needs to be dynamic, agile, and able to seize opportunities.

When somebody offers a warm introduction, they act on it. When a prospect shows interest, they build on that momentum. When something isn't working, they adapt instead of sticking with the same approach. That doesn't mean rushing relationships. Strong corporate partnerships are built on trust, and trust takes time.

But there's a big difference between being patient and being passive; healthy teams keep moving.

As we move into the 4th quarter, do a health check on your pipeline.

  1. Do we have quality prospects?
  2. Are they moving?
  3. Does our pipeline have genuine ownership?

And be honest with your answers. If one of those vital signs isn't looking quite right, don't ignore it; work out what needs to change.

Keep your pipeline healthy, and you'll create the conditions to build remarkable partnerships

One of the questions we always ask is: how healthy is your pipeline?

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The Power of Celebrating Little Wins

We all love a big win. The £250,000 corporate partnership, the signed agreement, the announcement on LinkedIn, the photograph of two organisations shaking hands and celebrating what they are going to achieve together. But no one simply gets a big win. Behind every strategic  corporate partnership are dozens, sometimes hundreds, of little wins that made it possible and yet we don't celebrate those nearly enough. The question is, why?

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What if the big win takes 18 months?

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High-value corporate partnerships take time to build. It could take anywhere from 6 to 18 months from identifying the right company to signing a partnership worth £250,000. If signing that agreement is the only moment you allow yourself to celebrate, you're going to spend a long time feeling as though you haven't succeeded. That's a long time to wait to feel like you're making progress. Instead, think about everything that needs to happen before the agreement is signed:

  • A warm introduction - that’s a win. 
  • They responded and agreed to a meeting - that’s a win. 
  • You had a brilliant first conversation and discovered their priorities and challenges - another win. 
  • They agreed to a second meeting and wanted to involve more senior people - win.
  • You identified an opportunity where your charity could help them solve a genuine business challenge - win. 
  • They told you they were interested - win.
  • You developed the proposal - win.
  • They gave you positive feedback - win.
  • They told you they wanted to partner - win.
  • You sent the draft partnership agreement - win.

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Every one of these moments matters, and every step in the journey is a little win. 

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Progress is powerful 

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Research by Teresa Amabile and Steven Kramer revealed that the biggest driver of motivation isn’t praise, money or recognition; it is making progress in meaningful work. Sharing and celebrating little wins reinforces your progress, because you write it down or say it out loud and your colleagues respond with encouragement.

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Celebrating little wins isn’t lowering your standards or pretending everything is going brilliantly; it’s sharing and recognising progress. High-value corporate partnerships aren’t built overnight. They are the result of hundreds of little wins that most people overlook.

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So, why don’t we shout about them? 

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Sometimes, celebrating a little win can feel uncomfortable. We find ourselves questioning: 

  • Is it really big enough to share?
  • Will people think I'm showing off?
  • What if the partnership doesn't happen?

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We can be so worried about appearing big-headed that we keep our progress to ourselves, but celebrating progress isn't boasting, and it isn't pretending that you've achieved something you haven't. It's simply recognising that something positive has happened and that you're one step closer to where you want to be.

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In fact, sometimes celebrating a win should attract attention.

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  • If somebody in your team has spent months developing a relationship and finally secures a meeting with a decision-maker, why wouldn't you celebrate that?
  • If a corporate prospect tells you that your proposition has completely changed the way they think about working with your charity, that's worth sharing.

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Communities should celebrate progress. Teams should encourage one another. Leaders should recognise the work happening long before the final result arrives.

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When we share those moments, something else happens: other people get behind us, and little wins create collective momentum.

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Big wins are built from little ones

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When we see an incredible corporate partnership announced, we see the result, but we don't see the introduction that happened 18 months earlier:

  • The first coffee.
  • The unanswered email.
  • The follow-up.
  • The conversation that uncovered a shared challenge.

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Those are the building blocks. So don't wait for the partnership agreement to be signed before you recognise how far you've come.

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Write the little wins down, and share them in your team meetings. Put them in your internal updates and tell your colleagues when something has moved forward. Celebrate other people's progress as enthusiastically as you'd want them to celebrate yours, because remarkable partnerships aren't built overnight. They're built through conversations, relationships, persistence, learning and hundreds of moments of progress that are very easy to overlook.

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Celebrate your little wins. They're the building blocks of remarkable partnerships.

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Behind every strategic corporate partnership are dozens, sometimes hundreds, of little wins that made it possible and yet we don't celebrate those nearly enough. The question is, why?

Stay Informed. Stay Remarkable.